Advice Column

Dumped - He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

I have been seeing this guy for quite a while at which point we broke up due to some family problems. A little time afterwards he proposed to me thinking that he was serious. Just recently he changed his story entirely and ended it again, saying he was no longer interested.

Long Distance Relationship - Gone Bad

We were together for 3 years 3000 miles apart and saw each other 3 times. All of a sudden one month ago he breaks it off saying he no longer is in love with me. I can't get him to open up or really talk about it. Every time it's brought up he just says he met an old friend and its best we're apart. I want him back...

Trouble in Paradise - Infatuated Co-Worker

I have never thought about anyone else since I've been married (now 7 years) and am sick that this has come up. This has all happened so fast, and I don't even know how to process any of it - but I'm feeling heartbroken, and can't even explain why. Any suggestions?

Trying To Salvage A Relationship - Commitment Issues

Am I trying to fix a person that is unfixable? Maybe he is too dysfunctional and I shouldn't expect a regular loving relationship, but I do care fore him a great deal and wish I could help...

She Flipped The Switch, Why Did She Lead Me On

I just don't understand why she led me along for three weeks, giving me the illusion all was well. I feel misled, betrayed and also very stupid. She still said she loves me and wants to be a part of my life, then ended it, like someone turned off a switch.

In Love With A Grieving Man

I met this wonderful man, he lost his wife 5 years ago from breast cancer and has 2 children. We became really close then just last week he told me that he could not carry on the relationship, he said he just couldn't not move on. I'm devastated I fell head over heels in love with him and now he has gone what do I do?

Sex With The Ex? - Right or Wrong

I dated this guy for 5 years and I broke up with him, I broke his heart. Now we see each other for occasional sex and I have realized that I want to have what we used to have. I confronted him on this and he won't because he says he still hasn't changed.

Rekindling Love: Commitment Issues

I have/had this great fear of commitment most of my life. Eventually I was given an ultimatum to marry her or else. I left her, or we broke up because I didn't commit, but as each day passes I realize how much I love her and feel that she is the one for me.

Obsession: I Want Him Back!

I know now that I want him but he won't have me. I've never been like this and it's becoming borderline obsessive. can't take it anymore! Why can't I drop this.

Moving On - Broken Hearted, My Ex Is In Love With Another...

We broke up last month. Initially I thought I was ok and ready to move on, but now I'm thinking otherwise. Lately my thoughts of him seem to linger on my mind.